Bending the map is a phrase used to describe imagining you are somewhere that you are not. You may think this is not such a problem but I promise you it is catastrophically bad to do. If you are not being where you are then you are in a fantasy. Check out the 7 Rules of active self help in the Panic Pit Stop Support Group on Facebook and get the full 7 rules in much more detail.
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